I'm am the biggest fan of this show. Not just because of the fashion (OMG the bridal coutoure VOGUE shoot in the movie made my nipples hard) but because of the friendship. The fact that these four women come from completely different backgrounds and places but are the best of friends makes me thankful for my friends, all of the broads I call friends anyway and those are the lucky chosen few. Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte and Samantha epitomize what every woman needs in her life; ride or die chicks. Without friendships like that, what is a girl to do? I have female friends who say 'oh, I don't get along with females like that' but on the real, what would you do if you couldn't call your girl at 3am to cry and bitch about the latest thing that dude did. Now I will say, a gay man is a great subsitute for a female. BUT the gays get it poppin! Their clubs stay open later then regular hetero clubs so....I'm not hating or saying that you should descriminate but keep that in mind. I've spent so much of my life alone and running from...whatever it was that was bothering me at the time that it was hard to cultivate these types of friendships. And although I'm selfish at times and put myself before any trip or any 'thing' my college roommates want to do, I do value them as friends. I need to start showing that more. This past (29th, damn a bitch is old) birthday was a lonely one. I spent it with my daughter and other then that......alone. Plenty of calls and a plethora of emails from associates and the Amazons but that's about it. Felt kinda sad but I made the most of it.
Miss my girls from college but I'm lucky to have met some fantastic females at this stage of my life that are just what the doctor ordered. Our lives are very different (at least mine is) but we all click in our own special way. Everyone needs to know that they're not, and never will be alone.
SATC is a handbook to women, regardless of race, creed or color that friendships and relationships go hand and hand and should be handled with care as such. I love my friends as much if not more than any man that comes into my life; he should know it (and respect it) and vice versa. Any man that comes into my life has to meet the Amazons, the roommates and my beloved sister because their opinion is highly regarded (lol) but not the final answer. If you're over 20, you know that sometimes it takes someone else's opinion for you to realize any potential flaws in your mate and/or your relationship. That's a tidbit for the ages....
In both relationships, in order for it to work, both parties have to be willing to meet in the middle of the Brooklyn Bridge :) .........
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